Culture shapes every aspect of our lives, from how we view the world to how we connect with others. Whether it’s through our family traditions, the communities we belong to, or the workplaces and schools where we spend our time, culture plays a profound role in shaping behavior, beliefs, and ultimately, the trajectory of our lives. As a musician, singer-songwriter, and youth empowerment coach, I’ve seen firsthand how culture influences personal growth and relationships, and how fostering an understanding of diverse cultures can significantly impact individuals, teams, and communities.

Today, especially after the latest viral video featuring New Zealand parliament's stand off haka-style, I've found myself having multiple conversations about Maori culture, and why it's important, so I want to explore how culture plays a role in personal development, team building, and mental health, and how we can use cultural practices to foster deeper connections and personal empowerment. This perspective, rooted in Pasifika values and teachings, informs much of my work with teens, families, and professionals alike.

But first: a little background information:

In case you missed it, a video went viral earlier this week from New Zealand, where MPs in Parliament staged a haka—a traditional Māori war dance—in protest against a controversial bill attempting to reinterpret the country’s founding treaty with Māori people. This act of cultural defiance struck me deeply, not only because it was a powerful political gesture but because of the wider message it carried about unity and the importance of shared history.

In New Zealand, culture is at the heart of everything. It’s more than just something you practice on the weekend or show off at big events. It’s woven into the very fabric of our daily lives. This is especially clear in the Māori tradition of introducing yourself. Instead of simply stating your name and occupation, [*ahem* no shade, DC, but seriously], we begin with a pepeha, a Māori introduction where we acknowledge the mountains, rivers, oceans, and ancestors that have shaped us. It’s a reminder that we are part of something much larger than ourselves—connected to the land, the people, and the story of our nation. I should put a disclaimer here that, as much as I'm not Maori; my father was from Fiji, and instead of honoring mountains, oceans, and rivers; we talk about our family and village tree, bird and fish. My family fish is a shark. I'm just sayin.

[And all of it is recorded in ink on my arm... because art and identity are intrinsically intertwined in Pasifika culture].

Why Is This Important? Let's Talk About The Role of Culture in Shaping Our Lives

Culture influences everything from our personal values to how we navigate life’s challenges. It shapes how we form relationships, how we express ourselves, and how we solve problems. Whether we are working in business, education, or personal development, understanding the culture in which we come from, AND the culture in which we operate is essential for fostering collaboration, empathy, and meaningful connections.

In New Zealand, for example, the concept of pepeha — a traditional Māori introduction — reminds us of the power of acknowledging our roots, our connections, and the land that shaped us. This act of connecting to one’s identity and community is not just a practice of remembering where we come from but also about honoring how that culture influences our present and future.

As a youth empowerment coach, I apply this understanding of culture when working with teenagers, encouraging them to take time to understand the cultural influences that shape their identities and their behaviors. Whether it’s through songwriting or other creative forms of expression, I use that groundwork to guide young people in exploring their own values and beliefs, helping them recognize their ability to overcome challenges and build meaningful relationships based around their identities, backgrounds and beliefs.

For example, how often have you found connection with others through your family lineage? What about through shared belief systems, religion or spiritual practices? How many people have you identified as "your tribe" based solely on a shared love of Iron Maiden, Taylor Swift or Beyonce?

I'm just sayin...

Culture as a Tool for Building Empowered Teams

In team building, teaching, and coaching; understanding and respecting cultural differences is critical for success. When teams—whether in the workplace, in schools, or in personal groups—are united by a shared understanding of cultural diversity, they are better equipped to navigate challenges and make more informed decisions. This also applies to mental health problems, where cultural sensitivity can help provide better support and strategies for those facing adversity.

In my experience, music is a powerful tool for creating empowered teams. I’ve had the privilege of facilitating workshops where individuals from different backgrounds come together through the shared experience of songwriting, which builds mutual understanding and collaboration. These sessions encourage participants to listen actively, share their experiences, and draw upon each other’s strengths. Music, like art in general, is a universal language that helps break down barriers and fosters connection, helping individuals feel heard, supported, and empowered.

Cultural Understanding and Its Impact on Personal Development

As we navigate adulthood, it becomes increasingly important to develop a sense of belonging and support. Learning about the cultural foundations of our lives helps us understand our behaviors, values, and beliefs. This awareness strengthens our ability to make informed choices, build healthier relationships, and lead with empathy.

The principles of Ako (reciprocal learning - pronounced ah-kaw), Whanaungatanga (community and relationships - pronounced fah-noh-ngah-tah-ngah), and Manaakitanga (respect and care - pronounced mah-nahh-kee-tah-ngah) shape my coaching approach with teens, helping them recognize their own potential and empowering them to take ownership of their voices. These values are not just theoretical—they are practices that can be applied in everyday life.

• Ako helps young people recognize that, just like they have things to learn: they also have things to teach. Their ideas matter.

• Whanaungatanga helps young people understand that learning together can be incredibly powerful.

• Manaakitanga helps young people learn about the law of attraction. What we put out comes back; which then helps make better decisions both in and outside the classroom.

By fostering a space for young people to express themselves through creative outlets like songwriting, I help them build confidence and resilience, essential traits for navigating the challenges of the modern world.

Incorporating cultural understanding into team building and leadership helps individuals better manage conflict, strengthen connections, and support one another in their personal growth. It encourages empathy and ensures that everyone feels heard and valued, leading to healthier, more effective teams—whether at work, in school, or at home.

Practical Strategies for Embracing Culture in Our Lives

Incorporating the recognition and honoring or celebration of culture into our daily practices — whether in the classroom, at work, or at home—requires a shift in mindset and behavior. Below are some strategies for integrating cultural awareness and understanding into everyday life:

1. Embrace Diversity for Personal Growth:
   For young people, actively engaging with individuals from diverse backgrounds and cultures is an incredible opportunity for personal growth. By learning from the experiences of others, teens can broaden their understanding of the world, while also recognizing the unique contributions their own cultural backgrounds bring. Encouraging young people to connect with diverse perspectives not only enhances their ability to navigate the world but also enriches their relationships, teaching them empathy, respect, and the power of shared experiences.

2. Create Safe Spaces for Self-Expression:
   As we guide young people through their personal development, it’s essential to create environments where they feel safe to express their cultural identities. When teens feel comfortable sharing their cultural background—whether it’s through music, language, or traditions—they are empowered to be their authentic selves. These safe spaces foster inclusivity, allowing them to explore their creativity, develop their sense of belonging, and grow emotionally. In turn, they feel more confident in expressing their ideas and emotions, both personally and within their communities.

3. Encourage Self-Reflection:
   Young people are constantly shaping their identities, and reflection plays a key role in this process. By encouraging teens to reflect on how their cultural background influences their values and behaviors, we can help them develop a deeper understanding of themselves. This self-awareness guides their decisions, improves their ability to relate to others, and promotes a positive, authentic sense of self. Teaching young people to be conscious of their cultural heritage allows them to confidently navigate the world and stay grounded in their beliefs and values.

4. Practice Empathy to Build Stronger Connections:
   Empathy is an essential tool for personal growth, particularly for teens who are navigating complex social dynamics. Teaching young people to listen with empathy—not just to respond, but to understand—helps them form stronger, more respectful relationships. It allows them to appreciate diverse perspectives, making them more open-minded, compassionate, and patient. By encouraging teens to practice empathy in their interactions, we foster emotional intelligence and create a foundation for healthier, more supportive communities.

5. Use Art as a Tool for Connection:
   Creative expression is a powerful tool for self-expression and connection, especially for young people. Whether through music, writing, or visual art, creative outlets allow teens to process their emotions, explore their identities, and communicate beyond words. Art fosters a shared experience where individuals can connect with others, even across cultural divides. It encourages young people to find common ground, express their innermost feelings, and develop a sense of belonging within their communities. Art not only helps teens connect with others, but also serves as a form of healing and empowerment, offering a healthy outlet for stress, trauma, and personal struggles.

   By integrating these practices into a young person’s life, we create spaces where they can thrive, explore their identities, and build connections that support their personal development and emotional growth.

Fostering Unity and Building Community Through Culture

Culture is not just a collection of traditions and beliefs—it is a living, breathing force that shapes our interactions, our worldviews, and our sense of self. Whether we’re navigating the challenges of business, education, or personal relationships, culture provides the framework for how we connect with one another.

As we continue to face challenges—whether personal, professional, or societal—it’s essential to remember the power of culture in shaping our responses. By creating a culture of respect, inclusivity, and empathy, we not only foster unity but also empower ourselves and those around us to thrive.

If you’re interested in learning more about how culture, creativity, and empowerment can transform your life or work environment, let’s continue the conversation. Whether through songwriting, coaching, or team-building workshops, I’m here to support you in finding your voice and making a meaningful impact.

Key Takeaways:

• Culture shapes our behaviors, beliefs, and relationships.

• Understanding and embracing cultural diversity is crucial for personal and professional development.

• Art, especially music, can be a powerful tool for building empowered, connected teams.

• Fostering empathy, inclusivity, and respect strengthens communities and creates opportunities for growth.

• Cultural awareness and understanding are key to personal empowerment and social change.

If you're ready to integrate these cultural principles into your personal or professional life, let's hop on a call! I'd love to give you some more information on how music and creativity can foster empowerment and unity in your community, workplace, school or even your household.

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Emma G